Focus on Your Job and Avoid Work Place Romance

By:Douglas Ogbankwa Esq.@douglasogbankwa@gmail.com
Everything in life is all about sex , except sex , sex is all about power

-Oscar Wilde


Many persons misplace priorities in life .They give you a job and you go about servicing your libido .That woman or man you see at work belongs to some one .Focus on your job and do not mix business and pleasure.

Many even get into real battles with their benefactors, just because of a man.or woman ,who they barely know , forgetting that ,that is the person that gave them a lift.Such persons should be avoided , as they do not have memories.If you do not avoid a person that lacks memory, you will be easily forgotten.

The fight for a man or woman is an extended fight for the struggle for power .avoid women of power or the power of women will destroy you.

When you fight for a man or woman, you may not have bruised faces , but bruised ego .

A bruised ego is like a roaring lion seeking for whom to devour .Avoid issues that distort your growth .Focus on your growth and you become successful , you become a prize.Unsuccessful men chase after women , women chase after sucessful men .A woman wants a mam ,who another woman already have .A man wants a woman who another man does not have .The paradox of gender is one the profound mysteries of life . Here are some thoughts by some sages about sex and relationship. Good sex is like good bridge. If you don’t have a good partner, you’d better have a good hand.” — Mae West
“Don’t have sex with the windows open. Love may be blind, but the neighbors aren’t.” — Shawn Alff
“Don’t put off until tomorrow anyone you could be doing today.” — Emma Chase
“The best time of day for sex is any time because it’s sex.” — Cameron Diaz
“Once you finish having sex, what is there to do but start over?” — Jarod Kintz
“The only difference between friends and lovers is about four minutes.” — Scott Roeben
“God gave me both a penis and a brain, but unfortunately not enough blood supply to run both at the same time.” — Robin Williams
Understanding emotional and physical closeness
While intimacy means different things to different people, it remains a cornerstone of healthy romantic connections. These reflections explore the deeper meanings of closeness between partners.

“The deepest moments of intimacy occur when you’re not talking.” — Patricia Love
“When it comes to sex, the most important six inches are the ones between the ears.” — Dr. Ruth
“Intimacy is not something that just happens between two people; it is a way of being alive. At every moment, we are choosing either to reveal ourselves or to defend ourselves, to value ourselves or to diminish ourselves, to tell the truth, or to hide. To dive into life or to avoid it. Intimacy is making the choice to be connected to, rather than isolated from, our deepest truth as that moment.” — Geneen Roth
“Intimacy is being seen and known as the person you truly are.” — Amy Bloom
“The grass is greener where you water it.” — Unknown
“The most important thing in life is to learn how to give out love, and to let it come in.” — Morrie Schwartz
“No one has imagined us. We want to live like trees, sycamores blazing through the sulfuric air, dappled with scars, still exuberantly budding, our animal passion rooted in the city.” — Adrienne Rich
“Touching him was always so important to me. It was something I lived for. I never could explain why. Little, nothing touches. My fingers against his shoulder. The outsides of our thighs touching as we squeezed together on the bus. I couldn’t explain it, but I needed it. Sometimes I imagined stitching all of our little touches together. How many hundreds of thousands of fingers brushing against each other does it take to make love? Why does anyone ever make love?” ― Jonathan Safran Foer
“Sex does not create love but well can create children, and time of a long relationship until one remains charming and capable of that. Love does not give importance to sex, but well the behavior of respect, courtesy, honesty, care, tolerance, and the companionship of life journey in difficult, sad, and good times.” ― Ehsan Sehgal
“The true feeling of sex is that of a deep intimacy, but above all of a deep complicity.” — James Dickey
Celebrating romantic connection
Alongside the emotions connected to your romantic partner, your brain can produce a hormone called oxytocin (the “love hormone” or “cuddle hormone”) when you spend quality time together—particularly during intimate moments, according to recent research.

“To have her here in bed with me, breathing on me, her hair in my mouth — I count that something of a miracle.” –– Henry Miller
“Couples who schedule time to connect with each other have healthier, happier relationships.” — Chris Kraft, Ph.D.
“I never understood why anyone would have sex on the floor. Until I was with you and I realized: you don’t ever realize you’re on the floor.” ― David Levithan, The Lover’s Dictionary
“Bite marks are love notes written on flesh.” — Unknown
“When you’re lucky enough to meet your one person, then life takes a turn for the best. It can’t get better than that.” — John Krasinski
“I miss your voice because it is a symphony; your scent because it is a treasure; your smile because it is a jewel; your hug because it is a masterpiece; and your kiss because it is a miracle.” ― Matshona Dhliwayo
“I have learned how to make time pass, but I never stop thinking of you.” — Abbas Kazerooni
“The joy of loving always heals the hurt of loving.” — Unknown
“Nobody dies from the lack of sex. It’s lack of love we die from.” — Margaret Atwood
Embracing healthy sexuality
Sexuality represents a natural part of adult life and contributes significantly to human wellbeing. Yet the topic generates diverse reactions and perspectives. Many mental health professionals advocate for positive sexual health approaches that honor both individual expression and relationship dynamics.

“Even with the awkwardness ofy first time lovers, there was a grace and purity, carnal and beautiful that I knew from that moment on I could never live without.” — Fiona Zedde
“And yet another moral occurs to me now: Make love when you can. It’s good for you.” — Kurt Vonnegut
“We are all born sexual creatures, thank God, but it’s a pity so many people despise and crush this natural gift.” — Marilyn Monroe
“Sex is as important as eating or drinking, and we ought to allow the one appetite to be satisfied with as little restraint or false modesty as the other.” — Marquis de Sade
“If sexuality is one dimension of our ability to live passionately…then in cutting off our sexual feelings, we diminish our overall power to feel, know, and value deeply.” — Judith Plaskow
“Sex is the best high. It’s better than any drug. I want to die making love because it feels so good.” — Bai Ling
“Chocolate and sex help your body release endorphins. Don’t have a sweet tooth? Make peace with the latter!” — Unknown
“I want to forget my name while I’m busy moaning yours.” — Unknown
“To me, sex is power. It’s empowering when you do it because you want to do it.” — Rihanna
The intersection of mind and desire
Some individuals experience attraction primarily to intelligence, a phenomenon researchers have termed sapiosexuality, according to a 2018 study. If you’re seeking deeper connection in relationships, consider partners who value intellectual compatibility alongside physical attraction.